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Moksha

A personal definition of Moksha

I define Moksha as the Shiva/Buddha/Christ/Mohammad/Nanak in all of us. And what is it that all these divine entities extolled – an undoubted faith in the ability to evolve guided by compassion, knowledge, strength and empathy. Yet these are still means to an end. Recently during my meditation a had a vision of two paths – one a path of a road, greenery, human beings, family – the human existence. And then the other path the ‘’parallel universe’’ that traverses alongside – the path of the soul’s journey and evolution. This path in my mind was moving swiftly with many spirits (white, ethereal) in motion, facing the human path but traveling fast from the left to right direction.

The human existence seemed more slow, strolling along amiably and sedate in comparison. They are parallel as one (human existence) will not live but its ethereal journey will continue. How is this related to my earlier statement – that compassion, knowledge etc. are means to an end?

It is through these learnings and its manifestations that the soul evolves as it continues its ethereal journey. When these qualities are firmly entrenched and becomes a part of its very definition, the soul reaches its destination – Moksha. So what is Moksha – nothing but BALANCE. Balance that becomes so intrinsic that the soul cannot ‘’live’’ without it – as necessary as breathing is to living. It is this final destination that the soul aims for and lives through many lives to reach. Hence while we learn to balance emotions, situations, people in fits and starts in our lives, the soul will continue to evolve till balance becomes the only way to exist.

Moksha

Moksha: A definition

The state of Balance is not detachment or equanimity or equilibrium – it is a long-standing, robust and unchanging state in itself. Balance is what keeps Nature together as a cohesive whole working in tandem and not against each other. A very delicate state to achieve yet cast in stone else it would not be so unchanging (human intervention is of course another story!). It is a commitment to stay in a never-changing state of Balance. Balance in thought, action, emotion, energy in a consistent way lifetimes after lifetimes – that is the highest level of attainment. It is a state of Doing that may even call for extreme action or energy to bring things back to order. Hence through a mix of masculine and feminine energies, which we all carry irrespective of our gender, the perfect mix of elemental energies that we carry in our bodies – water, air, fire and earth –  when conducted in perfect balance over time – leads us to Moksh. Fire energy gives us action, earth gives us resilience or strength, air gives is wisdom and intelligence and water governs our emotions. When the delicately held balance of any of these energies is disturbed, we fall behind in our quest for moksh. When this misbalance continues for long in a lifetime, the soul suffers as it knows another lifetime is needed to correct the imbalance and create new experiences.

Most of the divine masters (Gods) carried a permanent state of balance in them – feminine (nurturing) and masculine (action) energies, have a balance of all the elemental energies and hence are the souls that have not only reached Moksh but can guide others as well. In some religions like Hinduism, in my layman interpretation, these energies are defined in terms of different Gods and Goddesses but come to rest finally with the Mahadev – Shiva – the one who is a ultimate definition of Moksh by the sheer quantum of energies he balances. In other religions, my educated guess is that one divine master carries these energies within them as a cohesive whole.

If we can work with the Shiva/Buddha/Christ/Mohammad/Nanak within us – defined as the consistency of balance as a permanent state – the journey towards Moksh, I suspect, might get a little shorter.

 


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Living without expectations

Can you survive living without expectations?

Ever since I was a kid, we were taught to ‘do’ without expecting, to perform our duties, without focusing on the outcome, to fulfill our destinies without expectation of a reward.

These are words that have stayed with me since then. Words without meaning. Scriptures quoted out of context. Hanging in the air without any significance.

It is only now that I have realized the meaning behind these words.

Living without expectations

Living without expectations

Since I have started a journey down the path toward self-realization, these words have come back to mean so much more.

The last year has been a revelation of sorts for me, as I realized the futility of frustration and exasperation in not being able to control a situation.

The anger in not being able to dictate the path.

The anguish at being let down by others.

The sadness at being ignored, misunderstood and overlooked.

Then I realized that life ‘happens’. Situations unfold as they must. It is up to you to how to react to them.

If you choose to be miffed… you are.

If you choose to ignore it… it will be swept under the carpet and away from your attention.

If you choose to hold a grudge… you will.

If you choose to be at peace with whatever happens… you will be.

The only person who gets affected by your decisions is you. The only one who suffers is you. And the only one who can control how you feel is you.

So I chose to let go. And realized true happiness. Being in a position where I am not bogged down by my own expectations, has made life simpler and more enjoyable.

I spend less time worrying about situations, stressing about the outcomes of my efforts and actions. I do not waste time in trying to second guess a person’s opinion about me or my work.

As a result, my focus has shifted to pouring my heart into everything I do, giving it my best shot and then leaving it for destiny to decide the outcome.

The funny thing is, since then, my perception of the outcome has only been positive. When you approach a situation with absolutely no expectations, you are happy with whatever transpires.

Living without expectations, is a freedom that you have to experience to believe.

Letting go is tough. And yet, let go we must, if we wish to evolve. For if we do not shut one door, others can never open.

 


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Courage

Courage.

Courage means everything. Yet, it means nothing.

We fool ourselves into believing that we are brave. But in reality, we are afraid.

Afraid to let go. Afraid to take a step into the unknown.

Afraid to make a change. Afraid to accept it.

Afraid to accept another’s point of view, for fear of losing our own.

Afraid of tomorrow… and what it may bring.

Afraid that today might not work out the way we planned.

We base our judgement of today and tomorrow, on happenings in the past.

We are afraid to take a decision… at the same time, we are afraid of the consequences of not taking one.

We claim to be above pettiness, yet we fight inconsequential battles in our minds every day.

We claim that we have planned our futures. Still, we have no clue what tomorrow may bring.

So we wallow, suffer, and stay undecided.

We run from challenges. We avoid decisions. We avoid doing what needs to be done… because we are afraid.

We are cowards.

Yet we claim to be full of courage.

Courage

Courage. The coward within us

The truly brave know that taking a leap of faith is the only way… for every time a door closes, another one opens.

It is only when destiny and fate push us into a corner, that we realize the many options available to us.

But till we cross that bridge, we live in the illusion of comfort, pacifying ourselves with the motifs and totems of the known and familiar.

Have the courage to break free. Take the leap. Make the change.

Tomorrow will be new, tomorrow will be happy, tomorrow will be an adventure.

Don’t worry about whether you are deciding wisely.

For there is no such thing as a right decision, or a wrong decision.

 

To quote spiritual Guru Deepak Chopra,

“If you obsess over whether you are making the right decision, you are basically assuming that the universe will reward you for one thing and punish you for another.

The universe has no fixed agenda. Once you make any decision, it works around that decision. There is no right or wrong, only a series of possibilities that shift with each thought, feeling, and action that you experience.”


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